
The Bible tells us that we all have been invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb…
And Jesus gave a parable on this subject that we need to read and understand.
Matthew 22:1-14
New King James Version
The Parable of the Wedding Feast
1 And Jesus answered and spoke to them again by parables and said:
2 “The kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who arranged a marriage for his son, 3 and sent out his servants to call those who were invited to the wedding; and they were not willing to come.
4 Again, he sent out other servants, saying, ‘Tell those who are invited, “See, I have prepared my dinner; my oxen and fatted cattle are killed, and all things are ready.
Come to the wedding.” ’
5 But they made light of it and went their ways, one to his own farm, another to his business.
6 And the rest seized his servants, treated them spitefully, and killed them.
7 But when the king heard about it, he was furious. And he sent out his armies, destroyed those murderers, and burned up their city.
8 Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding is ready, but those who were invited were not worthy.
9 Therefore go into the highways, and as many as you find, invite to the wedding.’
10 So those servants went out into the highways and gathered together all whom they found, both bad and good. And the wedding hall was filled with guests.
11 “But when the king came in to see the guests, he saw a man there who did not have on a wedding garment.
12 So he said to him, ‘Friend, how did you come in here without a wedding garment?’
And he was speechless.
13 Then the king said to the servants, ‘Bind him hand and foot, take him away, and cast him into outer darkness; there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’
14 “For many are called, but few are chosen.”
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Verse 14 has always gotten my attention here, what does it mean that “Many are called but few are chosen?”
If people know anything about Jesus, it is that He was a consummate storyteller.
Jesus’ parables have the remarkable ability of engaging our imaginations and challenging our assumptions.
Jesus did not teach in parables to provide blanket affirmation for the way we understand God, ourselves, and other people.
He taught in parables to invite us to reexamine some of our most cherished convictions about matters of eternal importance.
For this reason, Jesus’ parables often unsettle rather than reassure.
Jesus’ parable of the wedding feast does just that.
The Feast
This parable is, like the others, about the kingdom of heaven (Matt. 22:2).
It tells the story of a king who gave a wedding feast for his son (Matt. 22:2).
The wedding feast has widespread significance in the Bible.
Ultimately, it is the day when God will gather all His redeemed and they will enjoy His presence in complete holiness and joy.
By the king’s order, banquet invitations go out.
The king’s servants are sent . . . to call those who were invited to the wedding feast, but they would not come (Matt. 22:3).
They offer a host of excuses and mistreat the servants, so the king punishes them (Matt. 22:57).
The king then dispatches His servants:
Go therefore to the main roads and invite to the wedding feast as many as you find (Matt. 22:9).
Jesus is describing here the offer of the gospel, first to the Jews and then to the Gentiles.
The Jewish nation had decisively rejected the offer God made to them through His prophets.
For that rejection, Jesus announces the judgment God will bring the Roman armies’ destruction of Jerusalem in AD 70.
But in God’s providence, that rejection is the occasion of the gospel being extended to Gentiles.
The result is that the wedding hall was filled with guests (Matt. 22:10).
But then something unexpected happens.
The king joins His guests and discovers a man who had no wedding garment (Matt. 22:12).
The man can give no reason why he has no garment.
In an act of eschatological judgment, the king orders His attendants to bind [the man] hand and foot and cast him into the outer darkness.
In that place there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth (Matt. 22:13).
Jesus ends His story by pronouncing the aphorism that summarizes the parables meaning:
“For many are called, but few are chosen” (Matt. 22:14).
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To understand this pithy closing statement is to understand the parable as a whole.
What does Jesus mean by For many are called, but few are chosen?
To answer, we must understand what Jesus means here by call and chosen.
The word call runs through the parable.
In the Greek text, the servants are said to call those who had been called to the feast (Matt. 22:3).
The Jewish invitees are the called ones (cf. Matt. 22:4, 8).
The servants are then commanded to call the Gentiles (22:9).
The word translated called in verse 14 belongs to the same word family as that translated called in verses 3, 4, 8, and 9.
This pattern helps us understand the nature of the call in this parable.
It is the summons or invitation of God through His servants, the prophets, in the Old Testament, and ministers in the New.
This call bids hearers to repent and believe the good news the servants proclaim.
It is possible to refuse, as many Jews did.
Jesus teaches that those who refuse the call are culpable for refusing it.
But it is also possible to respond to this call in a non-saving way.
The man without the wedding garment in 22:12 presumably responded to the invitation.
But his lack of the garment proves he doesn’t belong at the feast, and he is justly banished.
What is the wedding garment?
It likely pictures the gift of salvation freely offered in the gospel.
Only those who receive this gift will be seated at the wedding banquet of the Lamb at the consummation of all things.
The Chosen
Who are they who sincerely respond to the call and receive Christ in faith?
Jesus calls them the chosen or, as the Greek word may be translated, the elect.
These are all whom the Father has chosen in Christ from before the foundation of the world to be holy and blameless in His sight (Eph. 1:4).
Only these chosen ones will constitute the company of the redeemed when Christ returns in glory.
God’s eternal choice ensures they will respond sincerely to the call.
Since the New Testament elsewhere joins calling with election (see 2 Tim. 1:9; Rom. 8:30), what does Jesus mean when He says there are some who are called but not chosen?
The external call goes to all people. But only the elect experience the internal call.
The answer lies in a distinction necessary to understand the way the biblical writers speak of call.
In this parable, Jesus speaks of call in an external sense.
It is the summons of God through the gospel message.
This call bids men and women to come to Christ by way of repentance and faith.
In other places the biblical writers speak of call in an internal sense.
For instance, Paul speaks of this internal call in 1 Corinthians 1:24, this is the effective, saving work of the Spirit of Christ in conjunction with the gospel’s outward call.
This internal call powerfully and effectively turns the sinner from his sin to Jesus Christ.
The external call goes to all people. But only the elect will, in God’s time, experience the internal call.
For them, the gospel is indeed the power of God unto salvation (Rom. 1:16).
What It Teaches Us
What are the main lessons Jesus has for us in this surprising, unsettling parable?
First, it is not a slight thing to refuse the summons of God through His messengers.
God will hold those who refuse that summons responsible on Judgment Day.
,Jesus wants us to realize there is a more subtle way to refuse the summons.
One may pay lip service to the external call but never truly embrace Jesus as offered in that call.
Even this refusal subjects us to God’s just judgment.
The bad news is we have no power in ourselves to change our rebellious hearts.
The good news is God is pleased to change rebellious hearts by the invincible power of his Spirit.
[NOTE: God doesn’t repair the old heart, which is dead, absent the Holy Spirit; but rather He gives us a NEW heart (spirit) at our rebirth]
If we have responded to the external call in repentance and faith, it is only because God has first been at work in us to turn us to Himself in Christ.
Salvation is truly by grace alone.
[NOTE: Grace has ONLY been made available because the JUSTICE that was owed to us was poured on Christ, at Calvary’s cross.]
This truth is unsettling, but Jesus unsettles us for a reason.
He wants us to find salvation and life in Him alone, by grace alone.
And only in Christ may we find an everlasting, unshakeable foundation.
SELAH (let us pause and calmly think about these things)
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In the following video, Billye Brim and Gloria Copeland discuss this subject further:
The Marriage Supper of the Lamb
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